
- Think about what will happen after you show your anger
This is a special profitable method when dealing with anger,
anger is always very cunning expression.. it can lurk on your mind without any
notice, and suddenly it will pop up and do something that is extremely
hazardous to you and leave without notice. So to deal with this enemy you must be
use some tricks. Anger will throw away words without any prior notice, these
words are the ones that makes problems for you, not the anger.. so if you get
angry in the conversation immediately stop what you are going to say and tell
something completely different than you planning to tell.. by doing so you will
get enough time to adjust your response accordingly and after selecting the
best one you can present it to other..
no one will know you are in angry. Because they are thinking about the
totally irrelevant thing that you said, isn’t that what we want.. you won this
time..
- You got 32 teeth, use them
Animals already know this technique, they bite whoever make
them angry.. but as humans our laws prohibit us to bite, so how can we use our
teeth to resolve our problems.. just smile, and smiling ill not harm your teeth
as biting also.. but remember, you must not laugh loudly, because it as a clear
indicator to others who in conversation with you that you are in anger.. so
smile tolerantly with showing your teeth to them, and pretend you don’t give a
shit.. show them your heart is so much reinforced that their anger cannot shock
its foundations, then they get angry at you, You won in this time also..
- Review in your mind what would happen if you tell something angrily.
This step has many benefits than previous 2, but unlike them
this step is require a good practice. Your mind is faster than the light, but
we have limit its speed by thinking that our mind cannot process to thing with
so much speed. You must break that barrier first.. our mind can think many in
the time lapse between 2 words, once you realize this speed you can make it think
about the outcome of your words if yo throw it to your companions that make you
angry. But what will happen if you did not see it as such, maybe your companion
didn’t have intention to make you angry, maybe he has some problem in him..
whatever the course if you throw angry words at him he will get angry and it
may result to breaking up of your business partnership even. So think twice,
think what will happen if you shoot these words angrily.. if you practice this
and tame your words you will feel that your anger is slipping away from you,
this time you won for your lifetime..
In upcoming 3 days new posts will not be update due to personl work of the writer, please expect a new post from monday onwards.. thank you for been with me..
In upcoming 3 days new posts will not be update due to personl work of the writer, please expect a new post from monday onwards.. thank you for been with me..
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