Does breakups really hurts or is it another thing that hurts?

We all have experienced breakups in our Life.. in school, in working place. Among relatives we have made connections with another human being which pleased to our eyes, our mind by considering many facts.. these facts may contain naturalistic measurement which we collect by our sensors anonymously without any interference with ourselves.. when considering about humans we collect information by our sensors about the height of other one, his or her body structure, the way of their walk. Their talks, the way he or she behaves and many other facts. By using this facts we make love towards another one.. some of us made great effort towards it to make this love, and some receive it without any effort.. but now it is not the problem, we have break up in our Life, in this post I discuss about the breakup, not above love.. read further..

Love is a wonderful thing, it can act every imaginable way and it make so complicated outcomes that even cannot predict by our fastest super computers. But when breakups appear in our life our mind start to work as a super computer to predict every possible outcome that could be happen to he or she who left you.. the way he or she kiss his new lover, the way they doing sex, the way they live happy life together and many more.. but it does not tend to predict possibilities and outcomes that can happen to our life after this breakup occurs.. due to this reason most of us will end in a bar or brothel.. which can devastate our Life in so many ways.. it is the way of nature, we cannot change the nature, but we can understand it.. But we can let the nature itself to heal you..

The thing I have to say by writing this is, it’s not the breakup that devastate you.. it’s your own imagination.. your imagination is the thing which hurts you.. everyone has his own karma, and everyone is responsible for what he or she has done.. Life has different courses for each of us.. you cannot sail on another ones ship..  

second thing that affect your suffering about breakup is the feeling that you have been defeated, and someone has won he or she over you.. we select many thing in our life, but we all agree that every selection that we have done in our life is not the best selections.. and often we suffer after taking that decision.. we can buy a phone for 500$, and a new one storming the market.. you want to buy that , but every penny you had you have spent on buying your own one.. you may find the money for a new one in 3 months.. but every day in those 3 months you have suffered over your phone, why I have bought this one.. it is not possible to love the current model when you have comparison over new one.. but when you trying new one you can compare it with old modes.. and old ones always win the game..

 so don’t overthink about your Ex, control your emotions, be a good one and let their karma fuck them.. after you realize this cycle, you can fuck your own karma with your rules.. and he or she will regret their whole life about the decision they made..